"This incredible book is a gift to every victim-no matter if the victim is just beginning to consider the options or is far along on the journey to recovery. The skillful way in which she's written this story is similar to the experience of watching the fog clear from the windshield after a storm-hopeful, encouraging, freeing. I highly recommend this lovely, well-written book to survivors, advocates, family, and friends. I believe that if every adult in the United States read this book, powerful changes would take place in the country, so plagued by abuse. That is a significant claim!" -Vicki Bourus, MSW, LISW, SC Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault executive director, Family Justice Center of GHC executive director, supervisory professional social worker, professional social worker

"Excellent! A dark story told with deep insight. Gripping. Beautifully written. Told like it is. First rate work!" -David Zinman, author of The Day Huey Long Was Shot, prize-winning AP Journalist and Newsday Reporter"

"Standing ovation. Simply amazing! An extremely emotional and gripping read! This book gives the reader a clear and deep understanding of what abuse truly looks like. It is given a face, and the reader is part of the story. The feelings of isolation and fear are immobilizing for many victims. I feel very strongly this book can aid and empower victims, ultimately helping them to transition from victims to survivors." -Leah Leuthauser, MA, LPC, professional counselor

"Moving and insightful with a powerful message not only for the victim of abuse-but a message that transcends to anyone who cares about the circumstances of those caught up in this terrible web of abuse. I strongly recommend A Letter to a Friend: The Story of Abuse in America to everyone, and especially to those who need to empower themselves to take the steps necessary to break the cycle." -Dr. James Pearson, ACSW, LPC, educator, professional counselor, and mental health center director

"A helpful resource and guide to accompany individuals and families searching for the light-those going through abuse and struggling with what their next step will be. I will be sharing this book as a resource for those in recovery from abuse and trauma. Thank you Patty Wain Smith for being a voice in the wilderness, preparing a path for healing and hope!" -Pastor Brad Bellah, Lead Pastor at the Shepherd of the Sea Lutheran Church (ELCA)